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My approach can help you, your clients, team, or staff, handle disagreements,      connect with each other, and have         better relationships.

                   –– Debra M Roberts, LCSW

They're arguing in my office. What do I do? 

Regardless of your work setting, it can be confusing and even intimidating when there's tension in the air... when individuals don't get along, disagree, or they struggle communicating.

I've worked with challenging and stuck relationships for more than 20 years. I've got your back! Download my free guide, "Make the Arguing Stop!" today.

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Do you need helpful communication tools and a dash of confidence?

You, your team, clients, and staff can have more effective communication skills today!

Would you like to feel more comfortable working with clients that are struggling in their relationships, or have your staff improve their communication skills in handling conflicts, ongoing problems, etc.? If so, you've come to the right place! 

You can work directly with Debra, or have her come speak at to your organization or company.

Debra is an experienced and dynamic speaker. In addition to her private practice, she has also been coaching and training other mental health professionals and businesses both online and in person for over 20 years. Working with Debra, you'll feel equipped; capable of navigating interactions, defusing heated arguments, and building trusting,  stronger and positive relationships.


Help Your Clients Go From Conflict to Conversation

Working with relationships can be confusing and intimidating. Sometimes, it seems as if things could spiral out of control at any moment.

In this free webinar I give you the strategies you need to be in charge of your meetings and to begin to feel more comfortable working with all types of relationships, even the challenging ones! Caveat: The webinar is geared more for mental health professionals, but all professionals can benefit from it... and did I mention that it's FREE! 

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Want to Feel More Confident and Capable Working with Relationships?

Do you have those moments when you wish you knew how to respond to a conflict, or how to guide an intense conversation between two people in your office? That can be such a frustrating feeling! The Simple Tools course will give you actionable steps and the skillset you need to feel more equipped. You'll not only learn The Relationship Protocol, my practical communication model – a proven and effective approach with user-friendly tools, but also many helpful tips that you can employ immediately. 

You'll gain a system for understanding relationships, creating connections, & guiding all types of interactions.

I've been successfully using this powerful but friendly method for over 20 years, and now, I'm teaching you all of my best secrets! Learn how to change negative communication patterns quickly and teach your clients, or employees, how to talk to the each other.

Mental Health Practitioners can earn 5 CEU hours!

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Winner of a Reader’s Favorite International Book Award 2015        

Debra’s book The Relationship Protocol describes the Relationship Protocol communication model.

The RP book offers an actionable and user-friendly approach for having better communication, resolving real-life conflicts and navigating tough or stressful situations at work and at home. 

"A rare self-help book that combines a good layout with good content.”                 -Reviewed by Kim Anisi, for Reader's Favorite.   
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“The Relationship Protocol has become a great tool to use in my clinical practice. Engaging and very easy to read, Debra Roberts brilliantly clarifies basic communication skills and strategies that apply to healing all relationships. A MUST READ for both therapist and client!”

- Irene R. Siegel, Ph.D., LCSW

"The Relationship Protocol is a practical and easy-to-use guide for everyday living.  The protocol can be applied to all types of relationships and their varied interactions. The model has been a quick reference and reliable guide for me in both personal and business relationships.”

- Kathryn Prinz

“A seemingly easy read that can have a profound impact. I encourage everyone to own a copy of this book and to aspire to make its' tenets a part of your daily could only help.”


- Mario Iannetta


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